What dating a super duper hot boyfren/girlfren means

Let's Look at it this way...

You're a regular Joe or Jane and on some good days, you may pass for being a babe or a hunk. On other days, well...not so much of a heartstopper but you're definitely just regular. Or I'd personally like to call Average.

Look at this guy on the left...damn he's fine and one day, a lucky day, something that would never ever happen to you decided to happen...and ur dating this guy.

And if you're even luckier, you're a guy dating this hotshot. I mean, think about it...could this happen in a million years? Probably not. The chances are as slim as another Big Bang.

I mean, you look like this...and you're dating a Megan Fox lookalike.

Or well if ur a girl you'd probably look like this.

Anyhow, its a little bit over the edge to say you'd look like the two above but possibly, you may look a little less popular but a whole lot of average.

So, you're dating a hot other half. Now the dilemma wouldn't start so early of course. You'd be too high up on the rung to notice that damn, when u look in the mirror, you guys look like some cheap hollywood joke starring mr nerd and miss cheerleader. Or the school journalist with the football quarterback. Yep, the only connection would probably that they both breathe the same air and belong to the same species?

Well, when the dating starts, the attractive one probably finds the less attractive one pretty nice and cute. Fresh start from a bad breakup or some boring sod that needs to be kicked out. So it made you feel kinda special and all. Making you forget that ur partner is so out of your league. But man, love has a way to change ur perception on the whole picture. It practically alters ur reality and gives u a kick.

Well, its all candy and sweets in the beginning, but then thats where all the problems start to surface. When you go out with this hot eye candy of yours, you start to notice ppl giving u that look. Staring at u like u were some kinda weirdo or something. In their brains, they're churning up thoughts about how this honey bunch ended up with a nerd like you? The guys are thinking, damn she's fine. That ass belongs to me. What the hell is she doing with this loser?

The girls are probably thinking, what does he see in this girl? She's so not hot, and is that facial hair? LOL

You thought u could get over it until you go to the nearest coffee shop and the barrista didn't give u a look and just gave ur eye candy the greatest service with a smile ever totally ignoring u. When u go to the parties everybody notices ur eye candy but u.

Ouch, thats gotta give u a smack on the face to reality because it hurts like a bitch.

Then not to mention to bitches and dogs that would wanna steal ur totally hot boyfren or girlfren away from you. And the thousands of facebook friends and twitter followers ur other half has and u don't. Thats never a good idea, is it?

So, what can u do to keep it cool?

Answer; probably nothing.

Honestly, what can you do? Try to upgrade urself to look like a different person? Or try to ignore those cahoots? Or get another girlfren or boyfren?

I guess the only thing u could possibly do is to be comfortable in ur own skin. Remember that ur boyfren or girlfren probably fell in love with you in the first place because u were u. And nobody else. So be at ease with who you are. Cos ur special.

You just have to be happy with urself and love will find its way. Trust me, if ur hot partner leaves u or minds what other ppl think, she's probably not worth the time anyway.