Some of us have had more experiences compared to others while some have less, that doesn't mean ur at a disadvantage. You're simply more comfortable with the one that you're with now.
I'd like to focus on how love seems to have become stale after you've been with that person for some time, and you guys are fighting a hell of a lot more than before.
I'm sure most of us have been through this stage, going through it or you simply haven't reached it yet.
When we first started going out with someone, we're at our level best...feeling so hyper whenever we're around that person we love. It seems this person can do no wrong in our eyes. PPL around us regard our behaviours as unpredictable and silly but it doesn't matter to us. Because we're in love.
Its only when the static period takes over that it became unbearable. It seems like everything that ur loved one does makes u angry and irritated. You seem to be picking more fights than usual and it always seem like it was the other person's fault and not yours.
Somehow, these times happen because of the human's amazing ability to forget. We sometimes forget how much we love the person in front of us. We always forget that we'd once been fascinated by this person that we find disgusting now.
Always remind yourself that you love the person you're with now. Never forget that this person has done and sacrificed a lot of things to be with you just to hear you say how disappointed you are with them and how unreasonable they are now. Try to appreciate all that this person has done for you. Remember that it wasn't easy for two ppl with a love that corresponds to meet and fall in love. It was all fate that works in magical ways.
Always remember that true love never dies, it only gets stronger with time. We should never hold on too tightly on things and we need to learn to relax when it comes to this. Tell ur loved one that u love them today.
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