sign compatibility^^

WHen dating,libra likes virgo's unhurried approach, since it gives them plenty of time ti mull over the romantic potential^^

Virgo admires libra's clear mind and drive for balance.Both knows perfectly well the dating do's n don'ts.Both likes to be puntual n make dating suggestions.Virgo likes to keep things private so this drives them mad when libras have a tell-all attitude HAHA thats me!!!

Both Virgo and libra love to talk,they want to talk over each other.Libra glides easily from one topic to another but Virgos are very analytical ~enen~ virgos can't stand libra's lightness but when these two are in sing,they get both the picture covered and both benefits.Virgos plan and libras like to keep that plan in action^^

Libra knows how to keep an atmosphere nice and a beauty.Virgo's desire for calm is matched with libra's need for serene nest.

There are some challenges to the compatibility but once it gets settled down,its a perfect match with domestic harmony^^

Some Famous VirgoLibra couples, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith; Prince Harry and Chelsy Davy; Sean Connery and Diane Cilento; Scott Baio and Erin Moran^^

My hubby's sign^^

	The Virgin
Modality: Mutable Element: Earth Ruler: Mercury Season: Summer 6th Sign of Zodiac	Metal: Mercury Stone: Sapphire Color: Blue, Beige Anatomy: Intestines, the nervous system	Keywords: analytical, intelligent, reserved, critical, helpful, conscientious

Comparison with its symbol, the Virgin:

Virgo's symbol is the virgin, and is often considered a shy, "lady in waiting" personality that is a little naive. Though Virgos are seldom celibate, they often keep their personal identity intact throughout their lives. This composure is virginal in nature.

Virgo's symbol is sometimes shown as a woman carrying a sheaf of wisdom, representing the harvesting of wheat at the time of year of the Virgo (late summer).

The glyph for Virgo is thought to depict the sexual organs, with a tail that wraps inwards, closing itself to the world. This, in contrast to the symbol for Scorpio, which is similar, except that the tail points outward and upward in an arrow.

Virgo is ruled by the planet Mercury.

Sun in Virgo

(The Sun is in Virgo from approximately August 21 to September 20, depending on the year). It is rare to find the stereotypical nitpicky, exacting, "clean freak" in modern-day Virgos. Although the sign of Virgo has evolved with the times, there are some unmistakable traits that remain. Virgo people are generally respectable, hard-working individuals who have a love of knowledge and know-how. Virgo's symbol, the Virgin, shows itself in the lives of Virgos through a love of all that is "natural" and a certain purity of spirit that keeps Virgos self-sufficient and self-contained, at least on the surface. Virgos are sensitive to their surroundings, and they tend to embarrass easily. They are generally reticent when faced with anything or anyone new. However, once they feel comfortable, they can talk up a storm. Many Virgo Suns are not too comfortable in the limelight. These types are just fine living in the background, as long as they feel useful and appreciated. Solar Virgos have a strong sense of responsibility. Even when they've convinced themselves to be irresponsible about something or the other, they worry about it. Not all Virgos are workaholics. However, when Solar Virgos are not involved in some kind of project, there is generally a vague feeling of discontent. Even when their lives are filled up with work, they are restless and somewhat nervous creatures. The fear of under-performing is often strong. Virgos want to do thingswell. Some are exacting and thorough, and those Virgos who have convinced themselves to do a less-than-perfect job will generally feel incomplete. Virgo, as an Earth sign, has a notable connection to the body. Solar Virgos are generally very body-aware. In some cases, this shows up as some form of hypochondria, but, for the most part, Virgo is simply quite concerned with health matters and nutrition. Virgo is attracted to all that is natural and pure, but is generally unafraid to explore all that is not. In fact, Virgo is an intensely curious sign. Still, there is a strong desire to remain pure on some level, despite all of Virgo's curiosity and drive to know things. Those Virgos that find a true interest or "calling" easily become connoisseurs--their attention to details and enormous observation powers give them the ability to learn all of the ins and outs of any subject. These people love to do research, in addition to analytic or detail work. They'll happily pick apart practically anything, although they are less adept at putting things back together, and often have trouble grasping the big picture. Virgo Suns who are stuck in the practical, material world may learn a lot about themselves if they are brave enough to try placing their lives on automatic pilot once in a while. Letting some things go will do wonders for their spirit. Virgos tend to be too hard on themselves. They worry about their health, their performance at work, all the things they haven't done, and the emails that might be waiting for them while they are away from their computer. When they're not feeling well, they can be overly critical and nervous. They fuss around, have a whole slew of assorted little complaints, and throw small tantrums. Solar Virgos are perfectionists--there's simply no escaping it. They dream of mastery; they long to do something really well. Some Virgos are so scared of their own perfectionist qualities that they tell themselves they don't care. Others will forever dabble into one thing or another, leaving a string of incomplete projects behind them. However, the happiest Virgos accept their need to get things right, without overdoing it. Probably the best advice for Sun in Virgo people is to find something that interests them--however small or large--and master it. Most Virgos can be rather private and fussy about their work, or their personal workspace. They get nervous when others look at their unfinished work, and they are quite protective of their methods of doing things. Despite an overall lack of confidence, Virgos can be mighty proud--even arrogant--when it comes to their work, routines, or hobbies. Secretly, they think their methods of doing things are the best. Often, they are! They do take pride in the little things they do, even though, in a broader sense, Virgos can be rather self-effacing and self-critical. Solar Virgos often confuse people when their curiosity is mistaken for passion. The surprising part is that Virgo, although knowledgeable, doesn't always get its hands dirty. Their willingness to explore is often kept at the intellectual level. However, Virgos are often well-respected and valued in their circles for their loyalty, research skills, willingness to lend a hand, and their excellent powers of observation. They are generally kind and helpful souls who, when appreciated, do everything to make things work. There's an odd combination of the intellectual and the practical in Virgo that is sometimes mistaken for coolness. In fact, Virgos are often self-effacing and shy. They'll brush off your compliments quickly and, sometimes, critically; but don't let that fool you. They need your respect and appreciation. In fact, the happiest Virgos are the ones who feel appreciated and useful. Add plenty of worthwhile projects to keep them busy, and Virgos can be some of the sweetest, kindest people around. Some Famous People with Sun in Virgo: Billy Ray Cyprus (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Cameron Diaz (Sun and Mars in Virgo), Gloria Estefan (Sun, Mercury, and Mars in Virgo), Richard Gere, Stephen King, D. H. Lawrence (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Keanu Reeves (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Charlie Sheen

Moon in Virgo

Lunar Virgos find security in the little things in life. They feel most content when they've straightened out all the details of everyday life. Many of them enjoy running errands, paying bills, and balancing the books. They take care of these things happily, although some won't let on. In fact, many Lunar Virgos are quite practiced at nagging and complaining. As long as they are appreciated, however, these people will help you take care of your life, too. They are at their best when they feel useful and needed. If somebody needs help, they are generally the first to jump up and take on the task. Some people with Virgo Moons are accused of being underachievers. While it may be true that Lunar Virgos can lack self-confidence, many are--quite simply--content with living "regular", unassuming lives. They appreciate simplicity, and are often most comfortable when they're not getting too much attention from the world at large. Lunar Virgos are easily overwhelmed by pressure and stress. They worry incessantly when there is too much to think about; and they know their limits. Arguably the worst position for a Lunar Virgo is without a steady routine or a simply satisfying job. They need to feel useful, and they best express this by helping others in little ways. They need something to call their own, and the space to do what they want to do. The unhappy Lunar Virgos are fussy and complaining sorts. They are victims of routine and freak out when their plans are not followed. They are restless and nervous, and can't seem to see the big picture. Probably the best remedy for these people is a job or hobby in which they can express their deep need to analyze, attend to details, and micromanage. These people express their affection for the people they care about in little, but practical, ways. They can be a little stiff when it comes to open, gushy displays of affection. Lunar Virgos are often shy with new people. However, when they are comfortable, they are anything but shy. More often than not, others can count on Moon in Virgo people. They are reliable and trustworthy. Above all else, Lunar Virgos are practical. Others turn to them for help and advice. In relationships, Lunar Virgos can be self-effacing and kind. Some are quite shy in love, and easily intimidated on a sexual level. Many are not very comfortable with their sexuality, but they aim to please nonetheless. The sign of Virgo is very body-aware, in general. If this awareness combines with a lack of self-confidence, Lunar Virgos can be too aware of the parts that make up the whole. This can lead to a tendency to be intensely self-critical. Once Lunar Virgos learn to come out of their shell, however, they can be earthy partners with a lot to give. Some of the most skeptical people are Lunar Virgos. They can't help but poke holes when faced with others' blind faith. Their criticism can be maddening, and their insistence on seeing the practical in anything emotional can be challenging, especially if you are the dreamy type. Virgo curiosity shows up big time with this position of the Moon. To some, it can be confusing. Lunar Virgos seem very interested in others' problems, for example, but can be quite cool and even unsympathetic in the long run. Their advice can seem hard to more sensitive folk; yet Lunar Virgos can be surprisingly delicate when faced with others' criticism. Virgo Moon people are generally busy and quietly happy when they have their lives under control. They aim for a simple existence, and are often quite content with very little. Many are early risers, ready to take on the day with enthusiasm. They scurry around, keeping busy and managing their life quietly and expertly. As long as their little world is manageable, Lunar Virgos can be a delight to be around. Some Famous people with Moon in Virgo: Courteney Cox, Madonna (Moon, Mercury, and Ascendant in Virgo), Jean-Claude Van Damme

Mercury in Virgo

Mercury in Virgo people are rarely flashy in their communication style, but they do thoroughly appreciate it when others acknowledge their brainpower. These people love to keep track of all the details. They can be a little high-strung when things are not orderly or when things seem out of control, so they put a lot of energy into taking care of day-to-day, practical matters. Mercury in Virgo men and women are generally adept at organizing, planning on a short-term scale, and doing errands. They pay their bills on time, enjoy learning the details of a trade, and generally don't balk at secretarial tasks. They function best when they (or others) have laid out exactly what they have to do. They are generally prompt at responding to others (although a Leo Sun may be less so), and often are willing to lend a hand to others by doing research and leg work for them. Generally, these people are considered rather useful in their work and as friends because they have a handle on the details of the things they do. Although they are capable of learning a lot, they need orderly environments in which to learn and study, and organized study methods. They generally pick up a lot of facts and figures, and learn their own trade well, but have trouble truly absorbing the knowledge they collect on a deeper level. Although resourceful, Mercury in Virgo is not as strong at lateral thinking than, for example, water sign Mercuries. If your Mercury is in Sagittarius or Gemini, you may find Mercury in Virgo difficult to communicate with. Although you two may share common interests, the way you deliver your message can be intensely different to the point of frustration. Learning to understand that your thought processes are different, and the way you present your ideas differ, but there is more common ground than you may know. Mercury in Virgo natives may appear humble at times, but they get quite protective when it comes to handling day-to-day affairs. They can be very impatient with others, feel they do these things best, take on more work than they should, and then complain that they are doing all the dirty work. Some Famous People with Mercury in Virgo: J. C. Chasez of N'Sync (Mercury, Venus, and Mars in Virgo), Billy Ray Cyprus (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Gloria Estefan (Sun, Mercury, and Mars in Virgo), Avril Lavigne, D. H. Lawrence (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Madonna (Moon, Mercury, and Ascendant in Virgo), Robert Plant, Keanu Reeves (Sun and Mercury in Virgo), Alicia Silverstone, Christian Slater.

Venus in Virgo

Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won't try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less showy, but perhaps far more generous -- gifts of devotion and attention to details about you. Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off. Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do -- and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they're generally quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too fast -- remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things out. Some Famous People with Venus in Virgo: J. C. Chasez (Mercury, Venus, and Mars in Virgo), Vin Diesel, Sarah Ferguson, John Lennon, Heather Locklear, Jennifer Lopez, Julia Roberts, Kevin Spacey (Venus and Mars in Virgo),

Mars in Virgo

These productive and busy people are goal-oriented, practical people. Although they can be a little scattered at times, simply because they are doing so many things at any give time, Mars in Virgo natives get things done--quite well! They have a knack for handling a wide variety of tasks at once, and a tendency to take on perhaps too much at the same time. Most Mars in Virgo natives are not particularly aggressive by nature. Although they can be a little hard-nosed and critical at times, they rarely resort to pushing others around. Still, an annoyed Mars in Virgo native can be difficult to be around! Arouse their anger and they turn into complaining, over-critical nags. Generally, these natives don't make themselves nuisances, so this stage is unlikely to last for very long. It is a sensitive position, however. It doesn't take much to make these people nervous. Mars in Virgo people are quite protective about their "system" for getting things done. Although rather humble in a general life sense, they can be quite particular about their methods--how they organize and accomplish their goals, mostly with work. Theirs is a nervous energy. Although they have some staying power, they can be restless and are not given to sticking with the same projects for too long. These natives derive plenty of energy and life force from the things they do--their work, hobbies, and any kind of projects they take on. An idle Mars in Virgo native is a sorry sight, indeed. Fidgety, nervous, worried...all of these things are a sure sign that Mars in Virgo people have either too little to do, or far too much on their plates. There is a perfectionist at the heart of all people with this position. They'll be the first to deny this, but it's there! They worry when they are not producing anything, and they worry about whether what they've produced will measure up. An earthy and sometimes nervous sexuality generally characterizes people with this position of Mars. In a sense, their performance in bed is similar to their work. These people want to be good at what they do. They will generally be open to experimentation, if only to feed their curiosity and to feel savvy. There's often a shy and humble side to Mars in Virgo in any area that involves putting themselves out there and letting go (areas ruled by Mars). But experience and knowledge are important to these natives, and this drive generally wins over their natural reticence. (See also the Sexuality of Mars in Virgo). Some Famous People with Mars in Virgo: Ben Affleck, George Bush Jr., Nick Carter, J. C. Chasez (Mercury, Venus, and Mars in Virgo), Matt Damon, Johnny Depp, Cameron Diaz (Sun and Mars in Virgo), Gloria Estefan (Sun, Mercury, and Mars in Virgo), Elizabeth Hurley, Sarah Jessica Parker, Brooke Shields, Kevin Spacey (Venus and Mars in Virgo), Britney Spears

Virgo Ascendant

People with Virgo rising are often a little understated in their personal mannerisms and appearance, although a lot depends on the position of Mercury (the ruling planet of Virgo) in the chart. Generally, there is an intelligent and reserved aura about Virgo rising individuals that is unmistakable. These are actually somewhat shy people who need time to analyze things around them before they warm up to both situations and people. This quality can be received exactly as that, or it can be received as a rather stand-offish, cool, and even critical manner (depending on the audience). One of the biggest personality traits of this position is body-awareness. People with Virgo ascendants are sensitive to any discomfort or other signals their body gives them. Many are especially interested and concerned with physical health, and some are attracted to mind-body awareness exercises such as yoga. Virgo rising people are often rather particular about food. Although some have good appetites, there can be an unmistakable pickiness about what they put in and on their bodies. Virgo ascendant natives have a tendency to worry a lot, especially when confronted with new situations. They notice the tiniest details that others overlook. Many people with this position have a tendency to attract (or be attracted to) people who need help. Their relationships may be confusing as a result. Despite the Virgo rising tendency to appear rather collected and professional, relationships can sometimes be messy simply because these natives don't always see their partners and partnerships clearly. There's a quiet charm to many Virgo rising people. Once they have the chance to warm up to new people and situations, you'll find they have a lot to offer. They'll help you out of a jam, go out on a limb for you, and surprise you with a natural modesty under a somewhat critical and standoffish manner. More on Virgo Rising. Famous people with Virgo Ascendants include Madonna, Kurt Cobain, Kevin Costner, Sissy Spacek, Tiger Woods, Annie Lennox, Woody Allen, Jeff Bridges, and Warren Beatty.

My Sign^^

Libra

	The Scales
Modality: Cardinal Element: Air Ruler: Venus Season: Fall 7th Sign of Zodiac	Metal: Copper Stone: Diamond, Quartz, Marble Color: Pastel Green Anatomy: Kidneys	Keywords: just, sociable, refined, accommodating, kind, fair, diplomatic, likable, indecisive, respectful, artistic

Comparison with the Libra symbol, the Balance:

A balance weighs and measures; and so do Libra natives. Librans seek equality, harmony, and balance. The scales are also a symbol of justice.

Libra's symbol is the only symbol in the zodiac that is inanimate (it is not represented by an animal or person).

Where is Libra in your chart? This is the area in life where you strive for balance and equilibrium. If this part of your life seems unbalanced, you seek to change that. It is in this sphere of your life that you strive to be fair and just.

The glyph, or symbol, of Libra represents the setting sun. It also resembles an "equal" sign, though it more accurately reflects an "approximately equal to" symbol. Again, Libra's drive to compare and balance is represented in its glyph.

Sun in Libra

Libra natives are generally thought to be sociable, somewhat intellectual souls. They have an almost innocent way about them that makes them very approachable. Generally quite eager to cooperate, Librans spend a lot of their time trying not to rock the boat. In theory, Libras are peace-loving. In practice, they can quietly stir up all sorts of trouble with their ways. Because Libra enjoys balance in their lives, they seek the middle ground. In the process, they may end up trying to be everything to everyone. This is where their reputation for untruthfulness comes from. Generally, their untruths spring from a true desire for peace and fairness--although they may not be comfortable with direct and malicious trickery, they feel totally justified when they lie in order to avoid making waves. Peace at any price! In this sense, they seem harmless. But, what can result is quite a ruckus! People involved with Libras may crib about their lack of directness and their apparent inability to take a stand. Librans are experts at avoiding being the one to blame. When confronted, they'll (calmly and reasonably) say, "What, me? No, I just want peace." "On the fence", "middle ground", "middle road" -- these are all expressions that we can safely associate with Libra. Some more powerful signs may consider Libra a little on the weak side. This is all a matter of opinion, however! Without Libra, life simply wouldn't be as fair. Librans are known for comparing and thinking in relative terms, instead of in absolutes. This weekend is not just a good weekend, it's better than last weekend. These people are always looking for the "best" way or the "right" way to live. Harmony is the ultimate goal, but their idealism and high expectations can mean plenty of discontent. Since life presents all of us with an extraordinary amount of choices, if Libra doesn't learn to live in the moment at least some of the time, they'll be in a constant state of unrest. Society needs rules, and these rules attempt to bring justice, equality, and fairness. On an individual level, Libra represents these laws of civilization. Libra comes across as very civilized and rather refined. Some Famous people with Sun in Libra: e.e. Cummings (Sun and Venus in Libra), Matt Damon (Sun and Mercury in Libra), Zac Efron (Sun and Mars in Libra), Eminem (Sun, Venus, and Mars in Libra), Sarah Ferguson (Sun and Mars in Libra), F. Scott Fitzgerald (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra), Angela Lansbury (Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars in Libra), Avril Lavigne, John Lennon (Sun and Mars in Libra), Heather Locklear (Sun, Mercury, and Mars in Libra), Emily Post (Authority on etiquette - Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Kelly Preston (Sun and Mercury in Libra), Christopher Reeve (Sun and Mercury in Libra), Susan Sarandon (Sun and Mercury in Libra), Alicia Silverstone (Sun and Mars in Libra), Bruce Springsteen (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Jean-Claude Van Damme (Sun and Ascendant in Libra), Kate Winslet (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Yo Yo Ma (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra), Catherine Zeta-Jones (Sun and Mercury in Libra)

Moon in Libra

Moon in Libra people have a strong need for partnership. Without someone to share their lives with, they feel utterly incomplete. This is why many people with this position get involved in marriages or living-together arrangements quite young. Because this drive for harmony, peace, and sharing is so powerful, Lunar Librans are apt to do a lot of conceding. They are sympathetic and concerned for others, enjoy socializing, and revel in a good debate. Mental rapport with others is especially important to them. Lunar Librans feel safe and secure when they are in a partnership. These are the people who seem to always need to have someone tag along with them wherever they go -- even if it is to the corner store. They find strength and reinforcement in and through others. Both men and women with this position are often quite charming. They can be very attractive to be around, and are often given to flirtatiousness. Rarely directly aggressive, these people win your heart with their gentle and refined ways. Moon in Libra natives simply can't help but see flaws in their environment and their relationships. In fact, anything out of whack will bother them until it's fixed. Although diplomatic with acquaintances, when Moon in Libra natives argue with their long-standing partners, they rarely let up until they win. And, winning an argument is a Libran specialty--in fact, they may not even believe what they are saying, but will adopt all kinds of ideas just to get the last word. Living with Lunar Librans can sometimes feel like you are on trial, and Libra is the expert lawyer. Sometimes, though, Libra is defending you and supporting your point of view. Lunar Librans' idealistic outlook and constant striving for the best, most harmonious lifestyle can lead to much discontent. Looking for that one (elusive) perfect way to lead their lives can detract from enjoyment of the moment. Some Famous people with Moon in Libra: Alec Baldwin, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, George Bush Jr., Nicolas Cage, Geena Davis, Leonardo Di Caprio (Moon, Mercury, and Ascendant in Libra), Emily Dickinson (poet), Walt Disney, Angela Lansbury (Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars in Libra), D.H. Lawrence (Moon and Venus in Libra), Emily Post (Authority on etiquette - Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Christian Slater, Bruce Springsteen (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Pete Wentz, Vanna White, Kate Winslet (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra)

Mercury in Libra

Libra communicators come across as very pleasing. Diplomacy comes naturally to these natives. At the very least, they take many pains to be diplomatic. Whether they succeed or not depends on their audience--but more on that later. Mercury in Libra people long for equality in the intellectual world. They view mental affinity as one of the most important themes in any relationship they have. If they are not getting it (and many do not), they should look within themselves for answers. Perhaps they are trying too hard to score intellectual points with their partners instead of truly listening to what they are saying. Mercury in Libra attempts always to be fair in any discussion, but to more personal communicators, Libra's constant comparisons can, in effect, seem unfair! Libra can go off on so many tangents, and offer excessive disclaimers for any opinion presented, that they end up all over the place. If you think Virgo is critical and a perfectionist, spend some time with a Mercury in Libra person (and many of them have Virgo Suns too). They can't quite help themselves. But because they always aim to be kind and fair, they employ tact to get their message across. Mercury in Libra comes across in an unassuming manner, and handles people with care. When they find fault with others, they express it gently, consciously tending to others' comfort levels. One accountant I know whose Mercury is in Libra feels she instinctively hones in on imbalances in her work. When her co-worker was struggling with "balancing the books", this lady immediately saw her co-worker's oversight. Instead of simply pointing it out and risking embarrassing him, she pointed to the general area of the mistake and said, "perhaps the problem is somewhere here?" This way, she stayed out of trouble, and no one had to feel uncomfortable. Mercury in Libra looks for compromise. Middle ground is constantly sought. In fact, they are extraordinarily uncomfortable with extremes of opinion! This makes them excellent counselors and go-betweens, but it also gives rise to plenty of indecision in their personal lives. In their desire to find the best, fairest, most just choice, they can swing from a pro to a con, and back to a pro again--but we can't forget another "con" just to balance the last "pro". It can be dizzying for others to observe! They simply can't help but see the other side. This maddening characteristic leads to a strange paradox -- they can end up seemingly in capable of giving a compliment without a "but". After all, complimenting you is essentially drawing a conclusion, or forming an opinion. This is a paradox because Libra is charming, but give them a little time with something, and they will have a hard time arriving at a totally good (or totally bad) conclusion. Their ability to think in the abstract gives them a good measure of objectivity. These people have a subtle intelligence. Their thoughts are generally dominated by relative thinking--they simply can't seem to evaluate their environment without comparing one thing with an other. This trait contributes to refined tastes. Mercury in Libra is generally good at making connections with others, but remember that Libra can be a lazy sign--and for Mercury in Libra natives, this means mental laziness. This can prevent them from following up and maintaining the connections they've made. Mercury in Libra hates to be thought of as the bad guy (or gal), and can end up trying to make too many people happy. Mercury in Libra often has to turn to others for opinions when making a decision. The maddening part of it is this: Give these people an answer to their question, and they'll probably take the other side. For example, if they are deciding between two different restaurants, and you give them an answer, they are almost sure to suddenly see the other restaurant's merits. These natives play devil's advocate far too often. Many times they don't even truly believe the side they have taken--they are simply engaging in an intellectual argument. Mercury in Libra would be wise to look inside themselves to do a check on what they really feel every now and again. They can get so caught up in trying to win an argument and correcting the (perceived) biases in others' beliefs and actions that they totally lose sight of what really matters to them. Favorite expression: "On the other hand..."; "But then again..." Some Famous people with Mercury in Libra: Leonardo Di Caprio (Moon, Mercury, and Ascendant in Libra), F. Scott Fitzgerald (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra), Richard Gere (Mercury and Venus in Libra), Stephen King (Mercury and Venus in Libra), Angela Lansbury (Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars in Libra), Heather Locklear, Emily Post (Authority on etiquette - Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Kelly Preston, Christopher Reeve, Tim Robbins (Sun and Venus in Libra), Susan Sarandon (Sun and Mercury in Libra), Bruce Springsteen (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Kate Winslet (Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Libra), Yo Yo Ma (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra), Catherine Zeta-Jones (Sun and Mercury in Libra)

Venus in Libra

Venus in Libra people will try to impress you with their kindness, evenhandedness, and willingness to make your relationship work. They have a polished manner in love, which sometimes makes them appear insincere or superficial. They are gentle lovers who hate to be offended. They are threatened by bad manners and direct or abrasive expression of feelings. They not only prefer to choose the middle road, they seek the middle ground in their relationships. You can expect to be treated fairly, and you may be turned on by Venus in Libra's willingness to concede and adjust their lives to fully accommodate you. Venus in Libra men and women have idealized images of their relationships, even to the point where the relationship becomes bigger than life, taking on a life of its own. They can become quietly resentful if they feel they are being taken advantage of -- and they make it easy for more aggressive types to bully them around. Pleasing Venus in Libra involves treating them kindly and fairly. They love to share everything with you, so let them. Foreplay for them can be mental -- they love to communicate with you about the relationship. Sharing turns them on, and tactless or uncouth behavior is a turn-off. Although they seem to put up with a lot, be fair with them. Over time, imbalance in their relationship is sure to make them unhappy, and when it comes to this, they may try to even the score in subtle, roundabout ways. Don't let it come to that, and you will be rewarded with a lover who puts themselves in your shoes and treats you exactly how they would like to be treated. Some Famous people with Venus in Libra: Lisa Bonet, e.e. Cummings, Eminem (Venus conjunct Mars in Libra), Gloria Estefan, F. Scott Fitzgerald (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra), Calista Flockhart, Richard Gere (Mercury and Venus in Libra), Stephen King (Mercury and Venus in Libra), D.H. Lawrence (Moon and Venus in Libra), Yo Yo Ma (Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Libra)

Mars in Libra

Mars in Libra natives often reflect about things before they act. Decisiveness is not their strong point, but they do, eventually, get things done. Many people with this position procrastinate, generally because they feel the need to weigh all of the alternatives before taking action. Life isn't always fair, but Mars in Libra will seldom accept this notion. These natives can easily get caught up in defending themselves and others. Although their overall goal is to live peacefully, they stir others up with their desire to balance everything. Still, they always play innocent when they are challenged, and can generally charm the birds out of the trees to win your favor. Passive-aggressiveness is practically the hallmark of this position. They don't want to look like they are ever being mean or unfair, but aggression has to go somewhere! Too often, this results in sneaky behavior and subterfuge. On the other hand, some Mars in Libra people turn the Mars energy into action, and they fight for Libran justice and fairness in the world. On the up side, Mars in Libra people are adept at predicting when problems and discord will occur well in advance. They know how to compromise and are excellent at conflict management. (See also Mars in Libra Sexuality). Some Famous people with Mars in Libra: Billy Ray Cyprus, Zac Efron (Sun and Mars in Libra), Eminem, Sarah Ferguson (Fergie), Brendan Frasier, Whitney Houston, Nicole Kidman, Angela Lansbury (Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars in Libra), John Lennon (Sun and Mars in Libra), Heather Locklear, Prince William, Sinead O'Connor, Robert Plant, Alicia Silverstone (Sun and Mars in Libra)

Libra Ascendant

Everybody seems to like Libra Ascendant natives. They just come across as nice, pleasant, and fair. Look a little closer at their lives, and these nice people may have had quite a few problems in their relationships. Some of them have had a string of relationships, and it can be hard to imagine why! These natives attract others to them effortlessly. Besides, they simply don't know what to do with themselves without a significant other. Libra rising generally appear to be smoothing everything over. They have charming smiles, a gentle approach with others, and an easygoing image. Even if they were not endowed with good looks, they are attractive. Most pay a lot of attention to their personal appearance -- the colors they wear, their hair, the way they walk. Libra rising people can be enormously persuasive, although they will almost always use a "soft sell" approach when they want to win others over, which is all of the time! A tendency to pass the buck and keep up that "nice guy/gal" image are their worst qualities. However, they can make excellent mediators and will generally be the first to accommodate you. Libra rising natives are usually attracted to competent, active partners. Their relationships are often characterized by bickering or competitiveness until they learn to drop their sweet image once in a while and to stop blaming their partners for everything that goes wrong. More on Libra Rising. Some Famous People with a Libra Ascendant: Jennifer Aniston, Britney Spears, Jon Bon Jovi, Leonardo DiCaprio, Neil Diamond, Shari Lewis, Suzanne Somers, Erich Segal, Paula Abdul, Jean-Claude Van Damme, and Anne Heche are celebrity examples of the Ascendant in Libra. Also, Freddie Prinze Jr. has a Libra Ascendant with Pluto rising.

Ur the most patient n loving man I know,thank you hubby^^

Thanks Lou Kung ur the most patient man that has ever stepped into my life~thanks for loving me with all ur heart n giving me all ur precious time.Ur the best^^

When I don't feel well ur always there for me,well not literally there but ur almost always there.Ur so charming n can talk so well,but u always think u can do better~thats what I love the most about u!!!Ambition!

Whenever I make a decision,u will b there to support me no matter what it might be~n knowing me,I'm a hot head so I make a lot of risky decisions,but hv managed not to judge^^

My lou kung~hmmmm danny tan is a horoscope obsessed man~yes you are,lou kung!!Always concerned bout the star signs of everybody u meet.

I coudn't care less of these kinda stuff,honestly~I've always thought our fate n characteristic are unique and has nothing to do with our star sign.

I had to hand it to u though as I do find u having a lot of the signature charateristics of a virgo^^

U have a funny bone inside u and sometimes though it drives me mad as ur so silly,u managed to make me laugh. Thats what I call compatibility^^

Ur always compassionate n u will think for the other person even when they did u wrong,well the same couldn't be said for me though. When someone pisses me off,all hell breaks loose. Thats y I need u around to remind me always how much more life could be and to stop n smell the air.LOL

The best thing about u was that u never lost ur cool,ur always there to be the calm n collected man beside the deranged lady beside u~yep thats me!

U don't even shout back when v fight,until at last honestly,what else can I do but go along^^u do have a certain charm to make me feel calmer n cool.

I appreciate all those times u fetched me to college n back in pj when I had to read for my exams^^it was sweet n thoughtful as well as caring.Some girls may take it as over protective or controlling,I like it as I find it as a form of the purest care u could give.

Who could forget the times when u'd fetched me to my photoshoot and my job^^Its great that u'd do ur best to arrive on time n not make me wait for u too long^^

Thanks,ur the best Hubby^^

I got in touch with my softer side when I met Micah^^

Micah came into my brother and Sister in Law's life barely 5months ago~but he's basically the happiest thing that happened to all of us in the family.

I missed the opportunity to see him on the day he was borned,but I made it back 2 weeks after with the help of my sweetheart;thanks Lou Kung^^driving me bk to seremban to meet my family.

There,aside from the "meeting the parents" cue,everything was smooth going n pretty much cosy.We talked bout the childbirth n the labour pains Santi~my SIL~ went through for baby Micah.From what I heard he was definitely worth the pain.

But enough bout the perils of labour pain,let's talk bout baby Micah,who change my whole perception on dirty diapers,wailing noises n tears.

The first thing I thought of was that~my gosh!what big eyes he has!!!

They were genuinely round n black with sparkly twinkles that makes u go mad with love.N the best thing was he seldom cries.Well,I wouldn't know so much on that particular area but he doesn't cry a lot thats for sure.Even if he cries I don't feel the urge to tear my hair out or anything.I just wanted to please him,as much as he pleases me by letting me hold him in my arms.

He likes to turn back n stare at you to try n recognize who was holding him.N boy he likes to look at things.You would have to carry him here n there n talk to him like he could understand u.

Well,I don't get to see him a whole lot since I had to rush bk for classes n exams;not to mention my side event modelling job,but that made me miss baby Micah more.He was the sweetest baby I knew.

Trust me I've had my fair share of encounters with other ppl's babies but Micah wasn't like them.U know the type I'm talking about?They wail when ppl carry them,scream n kicks at u like u were planning to abduct them or u look like some villain from disney world.When their mom was like right next to you.

The second time I saw him,he was fetting bigger!Boy he was fair n the eyes,if possible,were getting rounder n sweeter!OOooooohhh,just wanna squeeze him!!!

As far as my brother,Ronnie told me,he was 8 kgs!!!Wow heavy little devil,isn't he?Its just been bout 5 months n he weighs that much!In fact he was so heavy that it was hard to carry him.But he was still so cute!Even my sweetheart who had nigh encounter with babies n kids Loved Him.

Honestly,I liked babies,nothing wrong with them,cute little things;although~well,to tell me to change diapers or coo them to slp,thank you but I'm obviously without that kind of interest.

In fact I don't even see myself as a mother.Thats basically a nightmare to me,ur hormones go haywire,ur skin sags,u get cellulites n stretch marks~gosh I'm not subjecting myself to that.

However,as I look at the love Santi had for Micah then,you know;the glitter in a mom's eyes when they gazed upon their own babies?Well I changed my mind,I realized that as u have ur own kid,its all worth it.

Honestly,its truly an envious thing to have a creature so small,so pure n kind to look up at u and stare at u like u were the only person he admires n loved.That was what Micah showed both his parents when they held him.He's a true gem of the family.

Thanks Micah,u made me fall in love with a baby~n thats a gd thing too=)

You're not charming so stop embarrassing urself,pls!!

You think ur so funny mr clown?If its not because of my sweetheart I'd never ever give u any face and will tell u straight to the point where u stand.U totally embarrass the male population.

Jokes are funny and nice and work great as an icebreaker~not when they get too personal okay so pls back off u shithead.

If u wanna embarrass urself,u can walk out into the street of KL wearing ladies' underwear on the top of ur head and do a moon walk or something,not to attack others that u shamelessly call friends.

Oh yep,I understand this is ur first girlfriend so u find the annoying irresistible urge to look sophisticated and trying way too hard to be funny and witty for her.So desperate that u could just attack me n my boyfriend by embarrassing us.Do u have any dignity?my boyfriend is the one u call a best friend.And u use him to impress a girl?A girl that u barely knew for a mere half year?

I understand ur pain,cos ur pathetic and helpless when it comes to girls.My boyfriend has always been more popular,way more good looking and so well versed compared to u.So U feel so small and so fucking sad that u'd be happy if any girls would pick u.

Who the hell makes jokes about their friend's girlfriends like that?U think thats funny?honestly, its just cheap jokes to me okay?But we're way more polite compared to u and yes v have a long practice of ethics when it comes to table manners n social manners so v look pass it and just ignore u as much as v could.But do not test me,I'm just trying not to make u embarrassed because my sweetheart still treasures his friendship with you.Mr Tag Along.

N stop trying to make ur girlfriend sound like a goddess by degrading other ppl,u swamp frog.

Pls do not forget ur just as insignificant to us as a piece of trash.Ur sense of humour isn't working so cap it.

Yes I completely get you,n I try to understand how utterly desperate n horny u are when u've not had a gfren for so long~but do not test me or my boyfriend just because ur jealous that v're more significant than u are.And yeah,v don't play underground okay?So our relationship has nothing to do with you,stay the hell away from it.

Just so u know,creephead~when ppl start to ignore u,it means that ur not funny.So stop trying to be witty when ur not.Ur just trying too hard.Don't make ppl embarrass u when they don't want to as ur the only joker in the outcome.yep a real joke indeed,since u like to joke so much.

Some girls Are Plain Annoying

There are some ppl that annoys the hell outta others and never tend to realize it.

You know the type?Opportunists,who tries too damn hard to be popular n end up just being a wannabe that goes nowhere.

N yep, I happen to know just that type of person.

Let me introduce this particular irritating parasite to u which v shall now call P.

You wanna go for a photoshoot,okay~of course I wouldn't mind inviting u for a photoshoot tgt with me. Nonetheless,I thought of u as a nice girl,before I knew what a demanding manipulative bitch you are. From the start of the shoot to the end,keep emphasising what time it ends,what time it starts,what time is the break,what time can she see the photos;hello?patience?It was like the whole shoot was about her her her her her!!!

And thank you very much for embarrassing me in front of the photographers.Do u understand what is editing and photoshop?Time Time Time!You don't go texting and calling them everyday for ur photos!Once is enough okay?They will give it to you when they're done!

And oh yep,who can forget the memorable Manipulating Scheme U have next?

Is it a fetish for u to try n manipulate everything to go ur way?U want to work as a showgirl,pls apply urself!Don't force ppl to give u every damn information about a job that she herself only knows trifling details about!Whats the job,when's the job,who's in the job,get the number n call her urself,bitch!

Not to mention manipulating the interview time to suit ur own schedule behind my back!especially when I'm the one that introduced the agent to you!when ppl ask u about the time N I'm already okay with it,don't change the time without 1st informing me!N even go as far as to say that I agreed with the time change when I knew nothing about it!U fucking bitch!

And pls don't fucking send ur profile to me to ask whether its okay,cos I don't wanna fucking look at it after knowing ur attitude is one of a total whiner n crybaby!you think ur the only one who has plans?You think I don't wanna have everything go my way?!Grow the fuck UP!

YOu know what I'm glad I know PPL like you as now I start to appreciate ppl who are totally understanding n not a manipulative trash.Gd luck trying to be popular~parasitic leech.