Arguments...

I'm not talking about the parent/sibling/friends type of argument. I'm talking about relationships here.

Sure, all of us who have ever been with a partner or love interest will be arguing at one point of time. If you have never argued with each other...seriously,ur just way too weird.

So what of this argument?

Yeah v shout and v scream and v might even jump and sob. The worst it is, the more it shows that u either really want to win or u really care about the other person. Okay so which one could it be? That depends on who u are.

So is arguing healthy in a relationship?

Perfectly but that depends on what type of arguments are u having.

According to Dr Gail Saltz It is an important part of a relationship.

Accordingly,ur partner is not u so having a difference in opinions is basically acceptable.

The only thing is u must find a way to compromise and reconcile ur feelings.U cannot be selfish and let it be unresolved because stacking them could prove fatal to ur relationship.U'll just bring it up again in the next argument and make it into a full blown confrontation.

So peeps, please do talk to ur partners when u fight.Don't be hateful and hurt ur partner by saying things u probably don't mean at the moment.Anybody could say hurtful things but it takes a freaking long time to mend the hurt u created.

So be nice and try to compromise...unless ur partner's a real jerk and always take advantage of the situation then it is time for u to get out of the relationship.

The funny thing about arguing is men and women will have basically the same type of responses and reactions throughout.Let's see if its true.

Women.

The hand.

Yep the hand is a classic example of a woman telling a man...damn I don't wanna listen no more.Shut ur hole cos I'm right.

Yep that's how a female reacts when u say shit and tries to come up with excuses.HAHA

The imitation

Yep women likes to immitate the voice of the men.In fact, she'll make it really high pitch and sound like the man only a lot more gay so that he will see how ridiculous he looks like.HAHA

Men

"can v stop this now?/Are you/we done?"

Men like to ask that right after the ladies finished talking about something. Yep they hate long winded essays so ladies, get ur point across without twisting and turning.PLS!

"Please don't compare"

Yep..men hates it when women bring up things like "But the other couple I know and other guy I know will do this and that"

Don't compare ur man to another guy...its a serious mistake ladies.

Here are some quotes that may interest u on couple fights and u may just wanna work on ur relationship a bit the next time u get into a fight.

Couples are wholes and not wholes, what agrees disagrees, the concordant is discordant. From all things one and from one all things.
Heraclitus

I see couples fighting about the stupidest things. You just have to rise above everything.
Sammy Hagar

I think it's healthy for couples to be away from each other for short periods.
Liv Tyler

Ideally, couples need three lives; one for him, one for her, and one for them together.
Jacqueline Bisset

Courtesy of BrainyQuotes

Always be reminded that ur a loving couple.Learn to love ur partner or love interest and set aside ur difference when u fight. Be supportive and kind to ur other half because it is extremely hard to find that special someone to share ur life with.Appreciate that.

Orange Range [HANA] [PV]

I Love this song by orange range,I think its one of the best pieces by them and it is so well written.
I hope u enjoy this song and wonderful lyrics like I do peeps^^

Romaji Lyrics

Hanabira no you ni chiri yuku naka de
Yume mitai ni kimi ni deaeta kiseki
Ai shi atte kenka shite
Ironna kabe futari de nori koete
Umare kawatte mo anata no soba de hana ni narou

Itsu made mo aru no darou ka ore no maue ni aru taiyou wa
Itsu made mo mamori kireru darou ka naki warai okoru kimi no hyoujou wo
Izure subete naku naru no naraba futari no deai ni motto kansha shiyou
Ano hi ano toki ano basho no kiseki wa
Mata atarashii kiseki wo umu darou

Ai suru koto de tsuyoku naru koto shinjiru koto de norikoreru koto
Kimi ga nakushita mono wa ima mo mune ni hora kagayaki ushinawazu ni
Shiawase ni omou meguri aeta koto ore no egao torimodoseta koto
"arigatou" afureru kimochi daki susumu doutei

Hanabira no you ni chiri yuku naka de
Yume mitai ni kimi ni deaeta kiseki
Ai shi atte kenka shite
Ironna kabe futari de nori koete
Umare kawatte mo anata ni aitai
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/o/orange_range/hana.html ]
Hanabira no you ni chitte yuku koto
Kono sekai de subete uke irete yukou
Kimi ga boku ni nokoshita mono
"ima" to iu genjitsu no takaramono
Da kara boku wa seiippai ikite hana ni narou

Hana wa nande kareru no darou
Tori wa nande toberu no darou
Kaze wa nande fuku no darou
Tsuki wa nande akari terasu no

Naze boku wa koko ni iru n darou
Naze kimi wa koko ni iru n darou
Naze kimi ni deaeta n darou
Kimi ni deaeta koto sore wa unmei

Hanabira no you ni chiri yuku naka de
Yume mitai ni kimi ni deaeta kiseki
Ai shi atte kenka shite
Ironna kabe futari de nori koete
Umare kawatte mo anata ni aitai

Hanabira no you ni chitte yuku koto
Kono sekai de subete uke irete yukou
Kimi ga boku ni nokoshita mono
"ima" to iu genjitsu no takaramono
Da kara boku wa seiippai ikite hana ni narou

Ame agari niji kakari ao arashi ni umareshi hikari
Koko ni yuruginai taisetsu na mono
Kizuiteru "ai suru" to iu koto
Mada arukeru darou? mieteru n da mou
"omoi" toki wo koe towa ni hibike
Kimi no yorokobi kimi no itami kimi no subete yo
Saa sakihokore motto motto motto

English Translation

Amidst us scattering like flower petals
It was a dream-like miracle that I met you
We love each other, we fight
We climb over all sorts of walls together
If I'm reborn, I'll be a flower by your side

I wonder if the sun will always be right overhead?
I wonder if I'll always be able to protect you? Your expressions, laughing and crying
Anyway, if everything turns to nothing, I'll be even more thankful for us having met
That day, that time, the tracks left at that place
Will again give birth to new tracks

I become strong by loving, I make it through by believing
The things that you left behind even now glitter in my heart, not having disappeared
I think happily of when we met, I regained my smile
Embracing the overflowing feelings of "thanks", I move forward

Amidst us scattering like flower petals
It was a dream-like miracle that I met you
We love each other, we fight
We climb over all sorts of walls together
If I'm reborn, I want to be with you
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/o/orange_range/hana_flower_english_version.html ]
I'm going to scatter like flower petals
I'll accept everything in this world
The thing that you left me
Is a real treasure called "now"
So living with all my might, I'll be a flower

Why do flowers wither?
Why do birds fly?
Why does the wind blow?
Why does the moon light up?

Why am I here?
Why are you here?
Why did I meet you?
Meeting you, that was fate

Amidst us scattering like flower petals
It was a dream-like miracle that I met you
We love each other, we fight
We climb over all sorts of walls together
If I'm reborn, I only want to be with you

I'm going to scatter like flower petals
I'll accept everything in this world
The thing that you left me
Is a real treasure called "now"
So living with all my might, I'll be a flower

After the rain, a rainbow hangs in the sky, light is born in the mountain air
Right here, I become aware
Of a firm and important thing called "loving"
Can I still walk on? I can see it
My "feelings", pass through time, and echo into eternity
Your happiness, your pain, your everything
Well, bloom then in full, more and more and more


Lyricsmode.com

Silly Nit Nat~

I know I know...that looked pretty lame for a blog post title right?I don't know why and when this Nit Nat nick name started sticking but it just did you know,thanks to a couple of not-so-funny photographer friends that loved giving ppl some silly names LOL.But they do have good work though,as far as pictures go,I like their work most=p (just in case ur reading this,I'm not stating ur names so don't start taking defamation suits against me)

I'm sure most of you have been through at least 10 or 20 silly situations in ur life. Silly situations as in U being the object of total silliness/idiocy/subject of a joke/ridicule~

Unlike most ppl,I am subject to loads of these situations. I totally bank in on embarrassing myself. There is no particular reason why this befalls me more than others but yeah,I guess I am terribly jinxed with silly situations.

I also have a trait of uttering totally silly words and statements sometimes.Yeah,they pop out of my mouth like a train when I least expect it. The other night I was thinking of buying some supplements (don't ask me what); and I saw a few brands on display. Thinking I was really smart, I wanted to go for the cheapest brand on the market and tried to rationalize it by saying "Hey isn't this brand like really GOOD. It's on TV all the time~"

Now that wouldn't seem so bad if I were a kid who gets all excited over a brand being advertised a lot on tv but I wasn't so. Now it only made me seem extremely shallow.Darn the idiot box for making me watch adverts!

Sometime like last week, I was talking to a friend on the phone. He asked me for advice regarding the perfect phone to buy for his girlfriend. I was like connecting dots~Girl,present~means bears or flowers! "Get her a bear,plush toys are the best!"

Sorry Keith,I wasn't really paying attention cos I was watching anime while talking to you.

I call it the food in mouth disease...ugh!!!!Previously I was working in the computer fair and was modeling for a certain brand (sorry name excluded) I'd like to call brand A.I was walking past brand B everyday I had to go to work in the event so it sort of stick to my mind. While answering a certain question by an interested visitor, he took my photo and asked, "what brand are u representing?" "brand B!"

Now I won't be surprised if the boss of Brand A ain't hiring me next event.

Having a Blurt out whatever I see syndrome simply proves I need to start thinking properly before I speak. I tend to say out whatever I was thinking and that proves terrible fatal. Imagine a detective drama and I was being questioned. If I happen to be watching a detective series the night before I'll have a defense mechanism working and I'll shout "I didn't do it!" before he even tells me what I did.

Damn the adverts and dramas!

Status quotes from FB

You don't have to be a famous person to be able to come up with good quotes or original sayings. Here is a list of collection of quotes that I got from fb statuses that I hope u may find intriguing or at the very least, interesting^^

1.The awkward moment when you type HO instead of HI.

2.My gas tank goes from zero to $30.00 in under a minute.

3.The guy who discovered milk, what was he doing with that cow?

4.Behind every successful man, there is a surprised woman.

5.Why don’t you go buy a diary Instead of posting your whole life story on Facebook?

6.Walk into a spider web and see how fast you turn into a ninja!

7.How come people on planes think it's ok to put there elbows into your seat and to not wear deodorant. Seriously I dont want your arms touching me and I dont want to smell you.

8.For those who thinks a womans place is in the kitchen, just remember...thats where the knives are kept.

9.Dear Customer Service: First of all, you should know that I’m typing this with my middle finger.

10.I won't delete u so that my friends and I can have something to laugh about when v run out of brainless conversations.

to confuse the confused with confusion

Have u ever been to a shopping complex and thought "yep this is the day I relax myself cos its a weekend and I don't have to go to class,fetch anyone,go to work or have unfinished tasks" and then wondered why u ever thought that way?

Reason being : Going to the shopping complex could be a great hazard to ur mental health as well as ur general well being.

I don't know about u but my idea of a shopping complex is a place where I chill, hang out, look cool, wear something nice and check out hot chicks and hunks. However, the more advanced v become, the more complicated shopping complexes seem to be.

I went to the C***e last weekend and was thinking of chilling with some nice food, get entertained with full blast AC and maybe get some cheap bargains. The moment I was there, the first thing that crossed my mind was...damn this place is freaking huge!

Now I was wondering, where should the car be parked? You see, aside from it being freaking huge, it also has different parking lots that lead to different buildings and the more v circle, the more confusing it gets.

To me, it would have looked better if it was something like costco's parking lot;

Open space u know...easier to get out of and easier to get into.

After going into one of those entrances, I decided that it was worst as it goes on as the parking lot was filled with cars and had different entrances yet again.

Feeling extremely frustrated, v finally found a parking space near the lift and was happy as v got the parking ticket and tried to remember where we parked the car.

Now I find myself doing algebra all over again. The slot v parked was next to a pole named H12, level B2 and entrance 6???????Dude...I didn't know algebra was gonna benefit me like this.

As v got up to the building, there was another problem. We wanted to eat but v had no idea where to go. As v turned round and round, v finally found out from the workers that v could go to the food street. Now v had to walk EONS as we took escalators, crossed the south court and what not before making it to the food street. Now to decide what to eat, they have so much food there that I felt really guilty as I thought of starving children in Somalia.

Before getting dinner, I wanted to use the loo. This was yet another obstacle. As we walked and walked and every nook and corner showed us yet to another dead end or to another cafe.

Darn it.

This isn't a shopping mall man. It's a freaking maze!

I was simply getting frustrated as my bladder calls out to its owner to get it a freaking loo.

At last v found a directory. All it show are where we were with really confusing colours. After a while, v grabbed a pamphlet and decided to use the MAP to look for the loo.

Honestly, I'm coming to relax in a mall, not to treasure hunt.Why would I need a freaking map? The best thing was making us feel like real idiots when we couldn't locate the right place.

Next weekend, I'm staying home and drinking myself a cup of homemade latte from Tesco or Carrefoure. U guys have a nice time at the mall pls.

About foreigners n boyfriends=)

No No No,this is not a racist post. It has nothing to do with trashing foreigners and stuff. Besides, I've got nothing against foreigners. So for those of u coming in here thinking ur gonna get a good dose of racism...this is definitely not the post u should read.Sorry buddy but u should probably go to another blog.

Just like my title indicated, I was gonna talk about foreigners and its still about them. Especially on the few nationals that came here to work as helpers or waitresses and what not. I noticed this strange phenomenon where these myanmar or vietnamese or indonesian helpers start conversing with each other in cantonese. I swear. Cantonese!

Imagine how difficult a situation this is for us customers who are chinese. We got in and decided to place an order and v have this foreign waitress asking us stuff in really really bad cantonese. In fact, it took us few minutes trying to decipher the encryption of our mother tongue being spoken by them infused with their own accent.

Now that's really fucked up. You know what, now they started talking to each other in cantonese. I mean, now its turning into a whole new language for them. Cantonese with their own accents. This is a motherfucking revolution. V will be ousted! LOL

Really it was funny. It just happened a couple of hours ago and I saw this guy (foreign national) talking to another one of his mates in a restaurant in cantonese. I had no idea what he was trying to say but his mate seems to understand perfectly. What the fuck is going on?!

Now I wanna talk about boyfriends. I told u this post was random.

U see, remember those days when ur boyfriend was oh so fresh and the perfect gentleman? He replies ur text on time and writes more than 5 lines? Trust me, the 2 year boink! is at work. After a few months, its gonna start coming in slow frequency and when u tell him something, he's gonna pretend he's listening and nod but he doesn't know shit of what ur saying.

Girls, fear not. Its not that he doesn't love u...I mean in his shoes u'd probably ask urself to shut up LOL. It's not like v like looking at his lousy underpants all the time too right? Guys just like new stuff. That doesn't mean u are at a disadvantage. U can be a whole lot of women. U may be the same person but u can have different personalities. Important thing is, treat him like someone he would find irresistible.

By the way guys, it goes two ways so don't be neglecting ur chicks now.

Well, this is a random post.Thanks for visiting. CLick some ads before u go.LOLs

To be important~

Have u ever met a certain someone that likes to make u feel how important they are?

eg situation~ certain someone hangs out with u and always tries to remind u how much said person has experienced; done; ate; more glam; cuter; sweeter; earn more than u.

Said person likes to say things like "It's me...I did; all me; because of me; I'm the one; and yeah I know..."

Said person also likes to remind u all the time that they are certainly the reason for everything good happening out there.

I'm sorry; I didn't know u had anything to do with any achievements in my life?

Besides that; certain person likes to tell u how much better said person's life is compared to urs. They brag as though they really know what they're talking about but half the time; they don't really understand what crap was spilling from their mouths.

Said person needs to shut that mouth up.

Or else; somebody's gonna shut it up for u.

Y u are actually much better than said person~

1. Honestly, you are u and u are unique. Just ignore said person.

2. Said person must have no other outlets for stress and is sexually frustrated plus hormonally imbalanced...so she has to put it all out on u.

3. You have much better things to do than care about it.

4. U think u are already doing well and fully confident with urself so u don't have to keep emphasising that u are important.

5. You are important so u don't find the need to ensure it every time of the day.

With all that; said person pls change ur attitude. It won't tk u very far. Humility is always the key.

The second birthday celebration for him

My boy turned 24 today but v decided to celebrate the eve of it instead of the real date. Don't ask me why but that's how I am.For all the days that v need to celebrate...I still think that the eve of the real date would be worth the celebration instead of the real date.Maybe because on the real date, ur counting down the day to the end of it while the eve is where u count down to the event=)

I went quite a lot of places to search for my boy's present.I decided to go to KLCC after Company Law class. I told my boy I was going shopping with a classmate but it was a blatant lie.I took the lrt to KLCC from PJ. I wanted somewhere reachable one way. I've decided to get my boy a name card holder this year because his was too funky to be brought out when he has a business meeting. Last year bought my boy a watch so I can't be buying anymore accessories.

After the 30 mins trip in the transit; I searched for almost 2 hours for a suitable name card holder. Finally I found one. It wasn't too costly or cheap.It was just nice. Then I looked for a cake. I found a peach cantilly in cake sense; near the lrt station in KLCC.

Once I bought these; I had to get a beautiful wrapping paper and it took me another 15 minutes. After all is done; I took the LRT to Masjid Jamek and had to switch transits to the Ampang Line to get home. At my stop; I had to walk another 10 minutes to get home under the hot sun while carrying a cake in danger of being melted by the UV rays and the present in my bag. Talk about the devotion of passion!

Once I got home; I couldn't wait to kick off my shoes and start preparing some DIY work on my present.

My attempt at a DIY bag to keep the present.

The gift wrapped name card holder.

After all that; I did my usual routine of yoga and cardio...later on I dressed up and waited for my boy to finish his work. For dinner; v've both decided on Italianese. That's partly because my boy likes Italian food while I really wanted to treat him something nice.

The menu looked good~

A sexy host (I thought she was sexy,my boy thought she was a little too "well rounded"). She took the cake from us and told my boy she was going to humiliate my boy by making an announcement of the personal celebration between the 2 of us.HAHAHA.My boy nearly peed his pants.

After that v decided to be safe and ordered something that was expected to be made good.

I decided to get a glass of cold water for an optimum Italian food taste and my boy decided on a fresh orange juice that apparently they did use an orange to make.

FOr those of u that's been in Italianese before; u will know this.They always serve some wheat bread and white ones with some olive oil and vinegar complements of the house (FOC) and asks u to taste it. I like the wheat ones. My boy finished his white ones and finished another portion of mine.Man, he sure can eat.

My boy ordered smoked salmon pasta and that's understandable.My boy is crazy about smoked salmon. The food was superb.

As those who are close to me may know; I love my fish and I don't take any sort of red meat or poultry so I was left with the choice of smoked salmon pizza or pure cheese. I opted for salmon. The taste was heavenly. I had like half of the pizza and my boy finished the other half. Guess he was hungry.

It wasn't very big. Just a small portion. They served me with tobasco sauce and I happily downed almost half a bottle of the thing.

We also ordered fried calamari. It tasted great.U should all try this. With their own special tomato paste and lemon with spices. Slurp =p

The name card holder for my dear.Somehow I think the presents I buy for him are always work related.Watch so he looks professional in front of his clients...and a name card holder. Hmmm need to get him something fun soon.

I chose it besides me being a girl that likes it bling bling, I also like the padded interior. Look nice huh?

My boy looking happy with his plate of pasta=)

The seats with the side view^.~

Now comes the funny part. My boy was anxious as he waited for the cake to arrive and for the person to play a trick on him.

He asked me to request for the cake with minimal tricks so I told the waitress but still; a surprise awaits...

This guy named Shai appeared and asked my boyfriend to declare his love for me while serving us the cake. HAHA.

Then he held the cake up and forced him to blow off the candle from this distant. LOL.

My boy's cake^^

My boy could only eat a slice as he ate too much before haha.

Danny Tan looking happy with his pressies^^

After paying for the bill (it came up to more than a hundred bucks but was worth it), we left and along the way in the Gardens' Mall v took some pictures^^

Dan proudly showing off his stuff LOL

The author of this blog.

Dan with the author of this blog=)

V all love this kinda pictures^.~

There goes the birthday celebration.Tonight vr going out celebrating with some of our not so local friends in PJ. Beer Beer Beer! Woots!